Instructors
Rachael Clinton Chen, MDiv
Vanessa Sadler, BS
Engaging Spiritual Abuse for Christian Leaders
Learn how to recognize spiritual harm, respond with greater care, and become a safer presence for the people you serve.
Start Date: February 10, 2027
End Date: May 19, 2027
Time: 9AM-11AM (PT)
Day of Week: Wednesday
Capacity: 16 Seats
Early Bird Member Price: $331.29
Early Bird Non-Member Price: $368.10
Number of CEUs Available: 12
Engaging Spiritual Abuse for Christian Leaders
Learn how to recognize spiritual harm, respond with greater care, and become a safer presence for the people you serve.
Someone tells you they were harmed by a church, spiritual leader, or faith community.
What happens next matters.
Spiritual abuse can be difficult to recognize, especially when harm is wrapped in good intentions, theological language, loyalty, authority, or a desire to protect the community.
Engaging Spiritual Abuse for Christian Leaders is a six-session live cohort for pastors, chaplains, counselors, and ministry leaders who want to better understand spiritual abuse, recognize how it operates in people and systems, and respond with greater wisdom, care, and integrity.
Spiritual Harm Is Not Only an Individual Problem
Spiritual abuse does not happen in a vacuum.
It can be shaped by family patterns, organizational culture, community expectations, power dynamics, secrecy, belonging, obedience, and the ways theology is used.
That means responding well requires more than identifying one harmful person or behavior.
This course invites leaders to look at both the wound and the system around it.
You will explore how spiritual abuse affects the body, imagination, relationships, faith, and sense of self, while also examining the environments that allow harm to take root or continue.
What You Will Explore
Recognizing Spiritual Abuse
Develop clearer language for identifying the nature, tools, and forms of spiritual abuse, including the ways it can operate inside well-intentioned systems.
How Harm Gets Set Up
Explore how family of origin, culture, community, authority, belonging, and obedience can shape vulnerability and complicity.
Learn to notice the dynamics that make spiritual harm possible before they become normalized.
The Impact of Spiritual Abuse
Examine how spiritual abuse can affect the body, imagination, relationships, attachment, agency, and a person’s experience of God.
You will also consider how these effects can show up in the people you serve and in your own story.
Trauma Responses and Embodied Awareness
Learn to recognize common trauma responses and practice grounding tools that can help you stay present with difficult material without becoming overwhelmed or defensive.
Healing and Repair
Explore what healing can involve, including reclaiming personhood, agency, attachment, and spiritual imagination.
Consider why healing cannot be rushed and why forgiveness or reconciliation should not be used to bypass harm.
Safer Leadership and Healthier Systems
Learn how to discern between healthy and harmful uses of spiritual authority and identify concrete ways to become a safer, more trustworthy presence in your ministry context.
This Course Is for You If…
Someone has disclosed spiritual harm to you and you are unsure how to respond.
You are beginning to recognize harmful patterns in a church, ministry, or organization.
You want to better understand how abuse of power can be sustained by systems, not only individuals.
You are concerned about unintentionally repeating harmful dynamics in your own leadership.
You want practical tools for responding to trauma with greater care.
Or you are trying to hold accountability and compassion together without minimizing harm or becoming defensive.
This course is designed for clergy, chaplains, pastoral caregivers, counselors, and ministry leaders with a wide range of experience.
A Live Cohort for Integration and Reflection
This six-session cohort accompanies the Allender Center’s Spiritual Abuse & Healing online course and is rooted in a Narrative Focused Trauma Care® approach.
Each session includes teaching, discussion, reflection, and opportunities to connect the material to your own context.
You will be invited to consider how the content intersects with your own story, whether you have experienced harm, witnessed it, or participated in systems where harm occurred.
You always choose your own level of sharing.
There are also two optional opportunities to explore a story of harm in the style of Narrative Focused Trauma Care®.
What You Can Take Back Into Your Leadership
By the end of the course, you will be better equipped to:
- Recognize how spiritual abuse operates in individuals and systems
- Understand how culture, family, and power shape vulnerability and complicity
- Identify the impact of spiritual abuse on body, imagination, and relationships
- Read trauma responses with greater awareness
- Use embodied grounding practices when difficult material arises
- Honor the pace of healing rather than rushing toward reconciliation
- Become a safer, more trustworthy presence for people who have been harmed
- Discern healthy and harmful uses of spiritual authority
- Identify concrete next steps for your leadership, team, or ministry context
Good Intentions Are Not Enough
Leaders can care deeply about people and still participate in systems that cause harm.
The goal of this course is not shame.
It is greater awareness, greater capacity for care, and greater courage to look honestly at the systems and practices that shape spiritual life.
When leaders are willing to name harm clearly, listen carefully, and examine their own use of power, new possibilities for healing and repair can begin.
This course will be held on the following days:
- Session One – Wednesday, February 10th
- Session Two – Wednesday, March 3rd
- Session Three – Wednesday, March 31st
- Session Four – Wednesday, April 21st
- Session Five – Wednesday, May 5th
- Session Six – Wednesday, May 19th
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Instructors
Rachael Clinton Chen, MDiv
Vanessa Sadler, BS
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Why should I become a member?
Members get to register for classes early – a full week before they open to the general public! Plus, members receive a 10% discount on all events and classes and access to value-add content in their inboxes throughout the year. To become a member, you can sign up here, or purchase a membership when you buy your class.
What kind of help in payment is available?
We offer discounts of up to 50% to clergy, staff, and lay ministry leaders of our official partners, which includes the Olympia Presbytery, the Northwest Coast Presbytery, and the Episcopal Diocese of Olympia. Partnerships have no financial cost, and are available with (a) regional or national denominations), (b) multi-site churches, or ( c) large nonprofit organizations. If you would like to encourage your organization to become a partner, please email your regional leader to let them know! You can even introduce them to us by cc’ing transforming@theseattleschool.edu, and we’ll put them in touch with the right person for next steps.
Early bird discounts are available during the first week of registration.
Becoming a member costs offers 10% on all classes and events for a full year. Often, just one class is enough to make the membership cost worth it.
If you pastor with a denomination, you may have resources for professional development. Check with your regional supervisor for more information on funds available.
What are the community guidelines?
Please see the full community guidelines on this page. If an instance of community guidelines are violated and cannot be resolved within the class, participants may let us know by emailing us transforming@theseattleschool.edu and we will direct you to The Seattle School’s incident report form.
What happens if my class is cancelled?
If the Center cancels an offering for any reason, all participants will receive a full refund of registration fees.
If a program is rescheduled, participants may choose to transfer their registration to the new date or receive a full refund.
How do I request a refund?
Refunds are available according to the following schedule:
- 60+ days before the program start date: 75% refund
- 30–59 days before the program start date: 50% refund
- Less than 30 days before the program start date: no refund
If you need to cancel your registration, please email transforming@theseattleschool.edu and include your name and the course title.
If the Center cancels a program, all participants will receive a full refund of registration fees. If a program is rescheduled, participants may choose to transfer their registration to the new date or receive a full refund.
How do I contact technical support?
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