How to Preach When Your Congregation Disagrees: A Pacific Northwest Perspective.

How to Preach When Your Congregation Disagrees: A Pacific Northwest Perspective.

Most preaching advice assumes a relatively homogeneous audience. The people in the pews may have different personalities and life circumstances, but they share a basic theological framework, a common relationship to scripture, and roughly similar cultural assumptions. When this is true, the preacher’s job is to communicate clearly within a shared world.

That model does not describe most Pacific Northwest congregations. And increasingly, it does not describe congregations anywhere.

What PNW preachers have been navigating for years, is now the norm rather than the exception across much of the American church. This includes rooms fractured by political difference, theological distance, generational tension, cultural complexity, and varying relationships to institutional Christianity. The question is no longer whether your congregation holds genuine difference, but whether your preaching is equipped to work within it.

Our May conference, One Table Preaching: Making Room for Every Voice, is built around that question. Before getting to what the conference offers, it is worth naming the specific challenges that make preaching to a divided room so difficult — and so consequential — right now.

The room is not just politically divided. It is divided in ways that compound each other.

When preachers talk about congregational division, the conversation usually turns to politics, but political division is only one dimension of the challenge.

The conference specifically addresses difference across cultural, generational, socioeconomic, ability, and sexual orientation lines, in addition to political and theological ones. These are not separate problems that happen to coexist. They intersect and compound each other in ways that make a single sermon a remarkably complex act of communication.

Consider what it means to preach on belonging to a room that includes someone who became disabled after a faith healer told them God would cure them, a first-generation immigrant whose relationship to Christianity is entirely different from those who grew up in mainline Protestantism, a young adult who is gay and still working out what the church means to them, and a longtime member who is grieving the loss of the church they remember. These people are not abstractions, but are present in PNW congregations every Sunday, often in rooms that are far too small to allow any of them to be invisible.

A sermon that speaks to one of them without awareness of the others is not just incomplete, it can cause harm. And in this region, where people have highly calibrated detectors for who is and is not being seen, that harm lands.

Prophetic preaching has a congregational cost that most training programs don’t prepare you for.

Many preachers who came up through progressive theological education were formed around a model of prophetic preaching — the sermon as a vehicle for truth-telling, justice, and the naming of what is wrong in the world. That formation is not wrong. But it is incomplete for the PNW context, where the people most in need of being spoken to are often sitting next to the people most likely to be alienated by the same words.

Leah Schade, whose research with clergy on preaching and social issues has informed much of the current conversation in progressive homiletics, frames this as the “purple zone” problem — the reality that most mainline congregations already contain the full spectrum of political and theological diversity, and the preacher who ignores this is not being prophetic. They are being oblivious (Schade, Preaching in the Purple Zone, 2019).

The more demanding work is learning to speak with genuine conviction in a room where the person three rows back holds the opposite conviction with equal sincerity. That requires something different from either prophetic boldness or pastoral avoidance. It requires a particular kind of craft — the ability to create space for difference without abandoning the claim that some things are true and worth saying.

The conference takes this seriously as a skill question, not just a disposition question: how do you speak faithfully when issues are polarizing and your congregation holds very different perspectives? That framing matters. It shifts the conversation from “how brave are you willing to be” to “how well-equipped are you to do this specific thing.”

The sermon is a monologue trying to do the work of a conversation.

One of the structural problems with preaching in a divided congregation is that the format itself works against what the moment requires. The preacher speaks. The congregation listens. There is no built-in mechanism for the kind of mutual recognition and meaning-making that actually helps people across difference understand each other.

This is not an argument against preaching. It is an argument for rethinking what happens around it.

The concept of “feed forward” — inviting laypeople into the sermon preparation process before the sermon is written, rather than asking for feedback after — represents a significant reorientation. When the voices of the congregation shape the sermon rather than respond to it, the resulting message carries a different kind of authority. It is not the preacher’s word handed down. It is something closer to a community’s word, spoken by the preacher but formed in genuine exchange. For congregations navigating internal difference, this process itself can be a form of healing, independent of whatever the sermon ultimately says.

This is also, practically speaking, a different kind of accountability. A preacher who has sat with the questions and concerns of their actual congregation before writing is less likely to inadvertently wound someone, not because they have sanded down their convictions, but because they know the room better.

The preacher’s identity is part of the message, whether they acknowledge it or not.

In a diverse congregation, the embodied identity of the preacher, their race, gender, age, cultural background, sexual orientation is never neutral. People bring their history with those identities into the room. Someone who has been harmed by authority figures who looked like the person at the front will respond to that presence with wariness that has nothing to do with the content of the sermon. Someone who has rarely or never seen themselves reflected in church leadership will notice whether they are reflected now.

This is not a problem that can be resolved by making the right rhetorical moves. But it can be engaged with honesty and intention.

Rev. Bruce Reyes-Chow, the keynote speaker for the May conference, brings particular depth to this dimension of the work. As a third-generation Filipino and Chinese American, a longtime ordained Presbyterian minister, and someone whose public work spans faith, leadership, race, activism, and technology, Reyes-Chow has spent his career thinking about how identity shapes proclamation and reception. His presence at the conference is not incidental to its theme. He embodies the question the conference is asking: what does it mean to preach as a particular person to a room full of other particular people, across all the difference that implies?

The tools most preachers have don’t address this.

Standard sermon preparation resources — lectionary commentaries, exegetical tools, illustration databases — are genuinely useful. They help preachers engage scripture with intelligence and care. But they were not designed for the specific challenge of preaching across difference in a fractured congregation, and they don’t offer much guidance there.

What is missing is a set of practical tools for thinking through who is in the room and what a given sermon will land like for each of them — not to produce a message so hedged it says nothing, but to produce one that is honest about complexity without being careless about it.

The Difference Grid, which conference participants will receive, is designed for exactly this. The orienting question it works from: if someone who holds the opposite view from mine were in the room, would they still feel seen, respected, and welcomed at the table? That question does not resolve the tension of preaching in a divided room. But it gives the preacher a concrete way to test their work before Sunday, to notice where they have assumed a homogeneous audience, and to make more deliberate choices.

That kind of practical tool is rare in preaching resources, and its absence is part of why so many preachers default to either prophetic boldness without pastoral awareness or pastoral care without prophetic courage. The Difference Grid creates a third option: a disciplined practice of holding both.

What this requires of us

Preaching to a divided room is harder than preaching to a sympathetic one. That is simply true. It requires more preparation, more self-awareness, more theological precision, and more pastoral attentiveness than most homiletics training prepares people for.

It also requires a willingness to accept that not every sermon will land well for every person — and that this is not evidence of failure. The goal is not unanimous approval. The goal is a congregation that, even amid genuine disagreement, experiences the sermon as an act of good faith: a preacher who took them seriously, who did the work, who was willing to be in the room with them rather than talking past them.

One Table Preaching: Making Room for Every Voice convenes on Saturday, May 2, 2026, in Shoreline, WA — a practical, skills-based event equipping clergy, church staff, and lay preachers to communicate in ways that span difference and promote inclusion.

If you are preaching in the Pacific Northwest, you are already preaching to a divided room. The conference will not make that easier. But it will make you more equipped to do it well.

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Rev. Bruce Reyes-Chow is a 3rd Generation Filipino/Chinese American and an active speaker, writer, and coachsultant. His writing, teaching, and speaking have taken him to Australia, The Philippines, Japan, Taiwan, Canada, and across the United States as he addresses topics of faith, leadership, activism, culture, race, and technology. Author of six books, most recently, In Defense of Kindness: Why It Matters, How It Changes Our Lives, and How It Can Save the World (Chalice Press, 2021) Everything Good about God is True: Choosing Faith (Broadleaf Books, 2024). Bruce also has a broad online video and audio presence but writes and podcasts through his Newsletter & Podcast, The Amalgamation. Bruce has been an ordained minister in the Presbyterian Church (USA) since 1995 and has pastored seven congregations throughout California. In 2008, he was elected Moderator of the Presbyterian Church USA, the youngest and first Asian American to hold the denomination’s highest elected office. He currently sits on the Board of Directors of Interfaith Movement for Human Integrity, works with Sabeel Ecumenical Liberation Theology Center to lead delegations to Palestine, is a Senior Consultant and Coach with Convergence, is a Gallup-Certified CliftonStrengths Coach, and is the Church Relations and Development Officer at Zephyr Point Conference Center. Bruce and his wife, Robin, have three adult children, two senior pups, too many houseplants, and a thriving empty-nester life in San Jose, CA.
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